
Mental Health Support
Explore my personally developed selection of mental health resources and tools, designed to support your journey toward emotional wellness and inner fulfilment.
the Sunk Cost Fallacy
Discover the sunk cost fallacy, the mental trap that keeps us holding on to jobs, relationships, or projects that no longer serve us. Learn why letting go can be a wise, growth-focused choice, how you can reframe your thinking, and change your approach with practical steps to make decisions that align with your wellbeing and values.
How Do You Ask to Be Loved?
Many people struggle to ask for love directly, instead hiding vulnerability behind criticism, withdrawal, or self-doubt. Asking for reassurance can feel risky, and we can replace it with protective behaviours like sarcasm or anger to mask our deeper needs. By recognising the patterns from our past, and apply alternative strategies to build safer, clearer emotional connection with those we love.
Spot the Difference
Learn how the “Spot the Difference” technique can help you stay grounded, reduce anxiety, and make safer choices after trauma. This practical, evidence-based tool supports present-moment awareness by identifying what’s changed, and knowing when it hasn’t, so you can evaluate risk, protect yourself, and feel more confident in daily life.
Why You Might Never Feel ‘Good Enough’: Perfectionism, Unrelenting Standards, and the Achievement Treadmill
Struggling to feel satisfied no matter how much you achieve? Explore the psychological roots of the common factors of perfectionism, unrelenting standards, and hedonic adaptation. Learn how these patterns affect our mental health, fuel burnout, and impact neurodivergent individuals. Discover trauma-informed therapy strategies to break the cycle and redefine success with compassion and balance.
Not Just a Picky Eater - Understanding ARFID
Discover the truth about Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder (ARFID), it's link to neurodivergence and how it's not about "just being fussy". Explore the sensory, emotional, and psychological roots of ARFID, and how it needs compassionate, practical support. Learn how to work with ARFID, not against it, and reclaim your relationship with food, one safe bite at a time.
The Power of Prediction
Discover why we look for reassurance, routine and stability and how the power of prediction shapes our need for control and safety. Learn when planning help us function, and when it holds us back. Anxiety, neurodivergence, or trauma can all impact how our brains look for certainty. Practical strategies, metaphors, and affirming insights can help us build flexibility without losing structure.
What Is Masking?
Masking, also known as camouflaging, is a coping strategy where neurodivergent individuals consciously or unconsciously hide their natural behaviours to appear neurotypical. Often beginning in childhood, masking can help people fit in socially, but it can also lead to burnout, anxiety, depression, and a loss of identity. Recognising masking is key to building self-awareness and authentic living.
Why Didn’t I Just Do the Thing?
Struggling with procrastination and asking yourself, “Why didn’t I just do the thing?” You’re not lazy, there’s likely a deeper reason. DBT’s Missing Links Analysis helps uncover the real barriers behind inaction. This 4-step guide offers practical, compassionate strategies to shift from stuck to action, use curiosity over criticism to move forward with confidence, no shame, just smart solutions.
Reframing Barriers
Learn how to reframe barriers and turn mental health struggles into powerful opportunities for growth. Drawing from Stoic philosophy and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), we can explore shifting our mindset to transform life's obstacles into tools for resilience. Discover how often it is our response, not our circumstances that shapes our strength and leads us forward in life.
Do You Build Walls or Bridges?
Explore how vulnerability builds genuine emotional connection in relationships and why over-giving, though often mistaken for love, can block true intimacy. Learn to move beyond fear, foster trust, and express emotional honesty. Discover the difference between being needed and being loved, and how embracing your true self can help you create lasting, balanced relationships.
O.P.E.N. Communication and Conflict Management
Learn how to navigate tough conversations with empathy using the O.P.E.N. technique. This powerful, psychology-backed framework fosters trust, reduces defensiveness, and promotes honest dialogue. Perfect for workplace conflicts, friendships, partners, children or other conversations, discover how Optimism, Strategic Blame, Truth, and Nonjudgement can transform your communication.
Chain Analysis – Learning about Emotional Reactions
Learn how Chain Analysis and the HALT technique from Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT) can help you understand your emotional reactions, identify triggers, and prevent overwhelm. Discover why your intense responses often stem from deeper vulnerabilities, and gain practical tools to manage emotions, rebuild connection, and care for your mental wellbeing more effectively.
Understanding Neurodiversity: Different, Not Deficient
Explore why embracing neurodiversity matters through 9 powerful truths that will transform your understanding of the human brain. From Autism and ADHD to Dyslexia and OCD, discover how different neurotypes bring unique strengths. Learn how inclusive support, not correction, helps everyone thrive in workplaces, classrooms, and communities built for all minds.
Radical Acceptance
Face life’s challenges with strength and compassion through Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT). Discover how Radical Acceptance helps reduce emotional suffering. It is not about learning to like difficult challenges. Instead, letting go of what we can't change allows us to embrace reality with clarity and strength, shift our mindset, and reclaim our energy in order to take meaningful action.
RSD when Rejection becomes Physical Pain
Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) is a condition where even small rejections or criticism feel overwhelming, often causing physical symptoms like nausea or chest tightness. Common among people who are neurodivergent, especially with ADHD or Autism, RSD can lead to avoidance, shame, or outbursts. Learn the signs, how it differs from social anxiety, and effective ways to manage and heal.
Helping Create Change with Motivational Interviewing
Motivational Interviewing is an evidence-based, empathetic method for fostering real, lasting change. Learn how to support your loved ones battling depression, stress, and health challenges by validating their emotions and exploring past experiences. Discover practical strategies and effective techniques to connect, empower, and inspire growth through compassionate conversations.
Managing Pain Mindfully: the 3 P's
Acute and chronic pain can challenge our lives and relationships. Learn to manage with strategies from the 3 P’s: Pacing, Prioritising and Planning. Break the boom-bust cycle, protect your energy, and work to improve how you manage. Discover how mindfulness, relaxation, gentle movement, CBT, and good sleep habits can support lasting wellbeing and resilience through your pain journey.
The Four Horsemen of Communication: How to Beat Them as a Team
Master the skills to defeat the Four Horsemen of Communication; criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling. Through effective communication you can build stronger, lasting relationships. Learn evidence-based strategies to transform conflict into collaboration, foster connection, improve communication at work, with family, friends, and partners. Team up to tackle problems, not each other.
The Circle of Closeness
Explore the Circle of Closeness—a powerful tool to help you understand emotional safety, trust, and healthy vulnerability in relationships. Learn how to map your social circles, set boundaries, and recognise who you feel safe being your true self with. Grounded in psychology, it offers insights into connection, masking, and the path to deeper, more supportive relationships.
Understanding and Managing Your Emotions
Do you feel like you are drowning in your emotions? Or struggling with feelings like guilt, shame, anger, or fear? Learn how to recognise, assess, and manage your emotions with DBT. Emotional regulation is a tool to help identify feelings, and tell if emotions are justified and how to respond in ways that support your mental wellbeing without feeling overwhelmed.
Disclaimer
The information on this website is provided for general educational purposes only. It is not intended as, and should not be taken to be, personalised psychological advice, diagnosis, or treatment.
If you are experiencing psychological distress or mental health concerns, please seek professional support from a registered psychologist, your general practitioner, or another qualified health professional.
If you are in crisis or require immediate assistance, please call 000 in an emergency or contact Lifeline on 13 11 14.